OAP, vlogger, Toke Makinwa released her non-fiction book “On Becoming” yesterday, and she has divulged quite a lot of secrets, especially the dirty secrets on what she went through in the course of her many years relationship with her ex-husband Maje Ayida . Chapter 8 of the book is titled “Hurt” and it gives detailed info on how she contracted STI from him.
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Emmanuel Stephens a former homosexual narrated the story of how he was neck deep into homosexuality
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The graduate of Theatre Arts from the University of Calabar, Crosss Rivers State, shared his ordeal with New Telegraph in a bid to discourage gays.
According to him, he has stitched his anus thrice.
"I had my anus sutured three times while I was practicing homosexualism. That was the price I had to pay for such ignorance. The first suture was in South Africa. There, it wasn’t a problem because people don’t give a damn but coming back to Nigeria was a clash of culture and my religion.
I went to South Africa in search of greener pastures, but fell in the hands of late Johnson, a gay, whom I served for four and quarter years.
I was forced into the ‘fraternity’ (homosexualism) and when I got back to Nigeria and met a particular doctor for the second round of anus suture; I knew my time was up, following the doctor’s counseling.
So, when I came back to Abuja, I continued the practice until I met a Christian doctor, who was supposed to suture my torn anus. The doctor had done it once and the second time, he had to counsel me on the dangers of homosexuality and advised me to quit, which I paid no heed to. I treated him with some level of contempt but on that very day, I had an issue with my system, and he gave me an option of repentance or death.
When I was given such options, I chose life than to die and gave up the practice but it wasn’t easy at first because the doctor made me go through a psychologist and psychiatrist as a way of reforming me. After that, I had a new lease of life.
I had been wearing adult pampers to prevent the feaces that regularly oozes from the anus because the anus had widened and cannot control defecation.
Really, Satan has a way of subjecting the ignorant people into perpetual bondage. I thought I was a ‘big boy,’ spending money at will but I was dying gradually. I don’t know how I got into such. Women didn’t appeal to me then. I played the female character."
He told the tale of how it all began:
"I have been admiring the wealth of this man and he drives clean cars. We all sell motor parts but I didn’t know he has something else. One day, the man called me and said, ‘Victor, you want to be like me?’ I said ‘yes’. And he asked me to follow him. We entered a public toilet, he removed his pant and showed me blood stained pampers and said, ‘This is what we do for money. I blend homosexualism with drugs.’
If you are interested, come, I will make you. When I saw and heard what he said, I opened my mouth agape and he laughed and said, ‘You don’t want to be like me. I’m not a cultist.
I have showed you what I do. I was surprised because we all pursue the same trade."
Confirming the increasing rate of this menace of homosexuality in Nigeria, which is on the geometric progression, a medical practitioner and a surgeon at Hannah Hospital, Lagos Island, Dr. (Mrs.) Chioma Udenwa, said she had personally sutured the anuses of more than 11 persons across the country. According to her, they are clean and wealthy young men.
She noted that they have money to throw around and are not ready to negotiate price with doctors as they pay any amount they are asked to pay. She said: “These are young handsome men. Once they come to the hospital and meet a particular doctor and confide in him, they will never have any business with another person.
Any time they come and that particular doctor is not on seat, they will go back. They want somebody that will keep their secret and that is why they deal with a particular doctor at a time but they can go to another doctor on the matters that are not related to their gay life. “I treat them because they pay well. But treating them is another disgusting thing because you would see anus of different perimeters.
To some, theirs have torn over three inches wide or more but when we suture it, it tightens a bit to hold back faeces but the person will still wear pampers,” she said. Speaking on the effects of such anal sex, a medical pathologist, Dr. Wole Alabi, said, penile-anal leads to colon cancer as well as other infections, adding that the anus is dirty on its own and contains a lot of bacteria.
He said: “The simple truth is that the human body was not designed to accommodate anal intercourse. The rectum is significantly different from the vagina, with regard to suitability for penetration by a penis.
The vagina has natural lubricants and is composed of a mucus membrane with a multi-layer stratified squamous epithelium that allows it to endure friction without damage and to resist the immunological actions caused by semen and sperm. “In contrast, the anus is a delicate mechanism of small muscles that comprise an exit-only passage. With repeated trauma, friction and stretching, the sphincter loses its tone and its ability to maintain a tight seal.
“Consequently, anal intercourse leads to leakage of faecal material that can easily become chronic. Moreover, the intestine has only a single layer of cells separating it from blood. Therefore, any organisms that are introduced into the rectum have a much easier time establishing a foothold for infection than they would in a vagina.
“The single layer tissue cannot withstand the friction associated with penile penetration, resulting in traumas that expose both participants to blood, organisms in feces, and a mixing of bodily fluids.
“Furthermore, ejaculate has components that are immunosuppressive, designed to allow the sperm to evade the immune defenses of the female. The fragility of the anus and rectum, along with the immunosuppressive effect of ejaculate, make anal-genital intercourse a most efficient manner of transmitting HIV and other infections.
“A list of diseases found with extraordinary frequency among male homosexual practitioners as a result of anal intercourse include viral hepatitis types B & C, anal cancer, human papilloma virus, isospora belli, microsporidia, chlamydia trachomatis, cryptosporidium, giardia lamblia, herpes simplex virus, Human immunodeficiency virus and gonorrhea.
An unidentified man has done the ridiculous by sharing a photo of himself immediately he had an accident. He took the picture at the accident scene despite having blood stains and bruises. He captioned the picture “accident is bae”. See the photo below:
What could he be trying to prove? Can’t explain this….. Smh
It is very likely that the American model, actress, and fashion designer, Amber Rose and her estranged husband Wiz Khalifa will spend Thanksgiving together. The duo were spotted taking their son Sebastian to an early Thanksgiving Party in Studio City, California yesterday.
See their lovely photo below…
I came across a cake that really represented the head of a 60-year-old celebrant wearing an agbada. It was made for his birthday, but Nigerians have given all manner of funny comments on the cake. What do you think?
See photo of cake and comments below:
Mathematics is usually seen as a very difficult subject by many students. This mathematical phobia was what led to the death of a student on Monday.
The student who was identified as Francis Gikonyo was preparing to seat for the Kenya Certificate of Secondary Education (KCSE) examination which started Monday, when he suddenly died before his mathematics paper.
The victim is said to be a student of Jomo Kenyatta High School . He was rushed to the district hospital in Nakuru after he was found critically ill, but on getting to the hospital he collapsed and died.
The school principal, Mr John Mureithi confirmed the sudden demise of the student.
He said, “It is very unfortunate that we lost a young and brilliant boy who had a bright future, the student had a chat with medics before collapsing and dying, adding he died from hypertension two hours before the exam.”
Mr John Mureithi also confirmed that the boy’s parents were informed of his death and counselors were invited to break the news to his classmates.
For the sake of those who don't know what black Friday means... According to Wikipedia:
"Black Friday is the day following Thanksgiving Day in the United States (the fourth Thursday of November). Since 1932, it has been regarded as the beginning of the Christmas shopping season in the U.S., and most major retailers open very early (and more recently during overnight hours) and offer promotional sales."
In Nigeria, due to the menace caused by swindlers, some people have arrived at a conclusion black Friday is a scam. Whereas, someone like me can testify to the reality and authenticity of Jumia black Friday because, I purchased my laptop on a black Friday 2 years ago.
Afterwards, the exchange rate in Nigeria skyrocketed and the prices of laptops have increased dramatically. Personally, I'm grateful to God for black Fridays. It is a day set aside for people to get goods at highly discounted prices.
This year, I gathered that jumia has decided to run the black Friday for twelve days. It will take place between 14th November and 25th November That means better chances of getting goods and services.
Do not let this opportunity pass you by. Grab it.
